As we pass the half-way checkpoint for 2023, I have recently found myself reflecting on the events of the past six months and how they have affected my outlook on life.

I felt so hard-done by by the “bad” things that happened in my life this year. As a result, I became bitter and like I forgot my privilege in society; it’s easy for us to remember the negative experiences of oppression as opposed to the good things that happen to us based on our social group. My existence as a white woman affords me benefits in society that others would have to work really hard for.

What is privlege?

An example of privilege is a white man being able to walk around safely at night with far less concern for street harassment, sexual violence, and murder.

We can be oppressed and privileged at the same time. I, as a bisexual woman, face misogyny, homophobia and sexism on a regular basis — however, being white, non-disabled, thin and cis-gendered provides me with far more opportunities at no extra cost of my existence. Basically, for a while there, I forgot that my reality is not the same as others.

What I perceive as “fair treatment” towards myself is in fact very different for marginalised groups, and it’s very easy to disregard other peoples’ experiences just because it doesn’t apply to you. The treatment I receive as a white, cis, non-disabled ect ect person should be the treatment everyone receives regardless of their social group or status.

We often don’t see our own privilege because it’s just “normal” to us. It’s not until someone points it out or you lose it entirely that it suddenly becomes glaringly obvious.

Why is it important to check our privilege?

Because checking your privilege basically means identifying the advantages and societal benefits that come with your race, gender, sexuality, and class and being mindful of how these factors impact your experiences and interactions with people around you. It’s all about being self-aware.

Here are some ways I have increased awareness of my privilege:

Educating myself – Learning about the history of systemic racism, sexism, and social inequality. Reading books, articles, and listening to podcasts or watching documentaries that explore them.

Reflecting on my experiences – Taking time reflect on my own life experiences and thinking about how my social identity has influenced them. Comparing advantages I have compared to individuals from marginalised groups in various areas of life, such as education, employment, and my own personal safety!

Listening and learning from others – I’ve been seeking out resources and voices from marginalised communities to broaden my understanding — listening to other peoples’ stories, experiences, and perspectives.

Using my privilege to amplify marginalised voices – My privilege comes with a responsibility to advocate for others who are discriminated against. I will use my voice, platform, and resources to call for a more equal society.

To check my privilege is an ongoing process, not a one time thing — it requires continuous self-reflection and learning! I hope I can dedicate the rest of the year to listening and learning and speaking up for those less privileged than I am.